I could get some easily tonight but...

[Mylazycat]

She's married.

Damn morals!

I was in a 13 year relationship and I never once cheated. Never. It's just not me. I don't believe in it.

Yet, it's been...awhile since that "stuff" and some small part of me is thinking I should be kicking myself for turning down a chance to get some. It would go against all my values, however. I could never meet the woman of my dreams and be able to honestly say I've never done that and never will.

Penis versus mind is what it is. Lust versus morals.

Not saying this to brag it's just that, fuck, temptation is a bitch.

Ok, now tell me your married woman/man horror stories or your dream girl/guy tales and make me feel beter.

[Mr. King]

Are you going to be doing it for sex, or do you want a relationship out of it. Not to sound like a complete ass or anything, but if I were you and it was just for sex than I would tap it like a cold keg.
Anyway I did that but I thought we were going to be more than just bed buddies. The women told me all sorts of things like for example, she loved me, she wanted to leave her husband for me, you know things I wanted to hear. In the end I learned two valuable lessons. Number one was don't give a women money unless she's your wife. Number two it never ends well.

[ds9]

She's married.

Damn morals!

I was in a 13 year relationship and I never once cheated. Never. It's just not me. I don't believe in it.

Yet, it's been...awhile since that "stuff" and some small part of me is thinking I should be kicking myself for turning down a chance to get some. It would go against all my values, however. I could never meet the woman of my dreams and be able to honestly say I've never done that and never will.

Penis versus mind is what it is. Lust versus morals.

Not saying this to brag it's just that, fuck, temptation is a bitch.

Ok, now tell me your married woman/man horror stories or your dream girl/guy tales and make me feel beter.

As someone who is recently married I think you did the right thing.

[bartleby]

She's the one that's married; not you.

[Ryan_ZOOM_Turner]

You should find someone who isn't married.

[Shepherd]

I think you're doing the right thing. Cheating yourself is bad. Enabling someone else to cheat it almost as bad. I agree, you want to be able to honestly say you've never done that down the road. Now if her husband didn't care, that would be another thing all together...

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[RyanP]

I'd never cheat on my girlfirend or wife. Having said that, I've been with a couple women who were married, they were either seperated or on their way there, but they were still married. I don't think sleeping with a married person whos willing to cheat makes you a cheater. Let's face it, if they don't cheat with you they're going to cheat with someone else.

[RickLM]

You did the right thing. She's married.

[Mylazycat]

I did the right thing.

Thanks to all of you for taking the time to post.

[t00lverine]

Good for you, bro. Stick to your guns.