URGENT: Does This Make Me Seem Weird/Stalkerish?

[Rod Nunley]

That's the point when it becomes weird/stalkerish, at least to me.

I want to consider everyone's advise. Can you tell me why it seems over the top though?

[En Sabah Poo]

no. keep it to yourself. you wanna have faith and hold on? that's fine. sit on this for two or three weeks and see if you still feel the same way.

I don't know. Regret can be a real bitch. Sometimes its not best to sit on things. My girlfriend and I had some real ups and downs at first. Broke up a few times for several months. A lot of it was because of our differences in religion. But I basically told her these same things and she came back and realized that religion wasn't as important as love. Three years later, we're inseperable and on the road to marriage.

I'm not saying everyones life works out fine. But sometimes things are just worth going for.

[LordKinbote]

Do you really find her perfect? Because I always thought of true love as complete acknowledgement and appreciation of imperfection.

[Blandy vs Terrorism]

I don't know. Regret can be a real bitch. Sometimes its not best to sit on things. My girlfriend and I had some real ups and downs at first. Broke up a few times for several months. A lot of it was because of our differences in religion. But I basically told her these same things and she came back and realized that religion wasn't as important as love. Three years later, we're inseperable and on the road to marriage.

In this case, the love isn't there. At least not the love he's looking for.

[Rod Nunley]

I don't know. Regret can be a real bitch. Sometimes its not best to sit on things. My girlfriend and I had some real ups and downs at first. Broke up a few times for several months. A lot of it was because of our differences in religion. But I basically told her these same things and she came back and realized that religion wasn't as important as love. Three years later, we're inseperable and on the road to marriage.

That's my thing. I don't want to look back and regret the things I didn't say. I would rather regret the things I did say. At least that way she knows how I feel.

[DrMachine]

DO NOT send this...do as Brad suggested...sit on it and then wait and see how you feel

[Smokinblues]

I don't know. Regret can be a real bitch. Sometimes its not best to sit on things. My girlfriend and I had some real ups and downs at first. Broke up a few times for several months. A lot of it was because of our differences in religion. But I basically told her these same things and she came back and realized that religion wasn't as important as love. Three years later, we're inseperable and on the road to marriage.

I'm not saying everyones life works out fine. But sometimes things are just worth going for.

right. i'm saying that a coupla weeks isn't gonna hurt anything. whenever you first break up with someone your all over the place, extreme emotionally volitile. Now is not the time to be making grand overtures. Take some time to heal and make sure what you want before you make a big play like this.

[Rod Nunley]

DO NOT send this...do as Brad suggested...sit on it and then wait and see how you feel

Will listen to all advise...but what's your reasoning.

[Blandy vs Terrorism]

I want to consider everyone's advise. Can you tell me why it seems over the top though?

Past experience doing the same thing.

[Rod Nunley]

right. i'm saying that a coupla weeks isn't gonna hurt anything. whenever you first break up with someone your all over the place, extreme emotionally volitile. Now is not the time to be making grand overtures. Take some time to heal and make sure what you want before you make a big play like this.

Fair advise...and it has already been one week.