Yes, actually, they are.
My opinion of you is very low, in part because you insist on comparing yourself to truly disadvantaged people. As someone who is actually disabled and sees this regularly enough among people with martyr complexes, I'm going to ask you to stop.
The sympathy that being disabled engenders is something that an able-bodied person is not entitled to. We pay a very high price for it, and you never will. You are not the same, or even remotely similar. You never will be until you are disabled.
So unless you decide to get yourself hit by bus or are run over by a combine, knock it off. You have not paid enough dues to be entitled to some of the few nice things we get.
And I don't care about your snipes. Every time you try to gather sympathy by comparing yourself to a disabled or challenged or whatever else kid that you can think of, you only stir contempt in me. I scorn privileged people who can't find enough personal meaning out of their own existence that they have to try to pass themselves off as less fortunate than they are.
This includes, btw, freaking out about others' marriages and insisting they somehow affect yours.