It Really Gets My Goat When Guys Rough Up Dames.

[Donal DeLay]

And if my pregnant sister-in-law's boyfriend shows his motherfucking face in this house again there's going to be a problem.

I'd like to see him pick on someone MY size.

You don't hit women.

[ZombieSpeedball]

He comes back, you bust him in the face something fierce.

[Benel Germosen]

He comes back, you bust him in the face something fierce.

What this guy said.

[19bernardo87]

The only time I ever got in trouble in school was when I hit a jackass in the face for pushing my sister on the floor. I got suspended for a week, well worth it. :)

[KingMob]

This is so ripe for a parody thread its unbelievable!

[Donal DeLay]

I need to laugh, or I'm going to go break my hands and shins on my heavybag.

Anybody got anything?

[Mattman]

You call your sister a dame?

[Donal DeLay]

You call your sister a dame?

All women are dames, brother. Some just aren't treated like one so they don't act like one.

[John Drake]

http://i115.photobucket.com/albums/n296/engtechwp/gadgets/sin_city_xl_06.jpg

[costello]

What an asshole.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3P8FyMsGRag&feature=related

[costello]

Sometimes it's fun to antagonize the trolls. Just think. He has NOTHING in his life except this. It's sad but funny because he's an asshole and deserves the lonliness.

Did you see the link? Woman beating up a man? It's kinda funny.

[Donal DeLay]

Did you see the link? Woman beating up a man? It's kinda funny.

It was.

I prefer this one, though: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHJiKIRh8QE

(thanks for the laugh)

[costello]

It was.

I prefer this one, though: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHJiKIRh8QE

(thanks for the laugh)

I can't even finish that. That's terrible.

[Brewtown Andy]

He comes back, you bust him in the face something fierce.And make sure you have the video camera running first!

[changingshades]

It was.

I prefer this one, though: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHJiKIRh8QE

(thanks for the laugh)

please don't show me this one at this point and time

and this isn't herpes S-I-L right?

it seems like both of them are in abusive relationships, just different genders in the abusive position.

[thatguyfromsyracuse]

Yeah, see!

[Zac Goyette]

You should do it publicly and humiliate him for it.

[Garth]

I've never subscribed to the "guys DON'T hit women" mantra. I don't think it is ok for anyone to hit another person unless it is self-defense. But for some reason people think that women can knock guys around and that is ok, but the opposite is not? Doesn't fly for me.

[JimboX]

It was.

I prefer this one, though: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHJiKIRh8QE

(thanks for the laugh)

Domestic abuse. Always good for a laugh.

[19bernardo87]

I've never subscribed to the "guys DON'T hit women" mantra. I don't think it is ok for anyone to hit another person unless it is self-defense. But for some reason people think that women can knock guys around and that is ok, but the opposite is not? Doesn't fly for me.

You can pee standing up and not get pregnant, and they can get free drinks at bars and can't be harmed by the other sex.

That was the deal. Men who slap women around and pee sitting down are breaking the deal. :no:

[Ron Salas]

There's something wrong with that guy.

[Artie Pink]

Sure ya will, mac. Teach that slob a lesson, and I don't mean arithmetic. Give him a haymaker, right in the chops. Imagine, hittin' a swell dame like your sister, and her in a family way, too.

Aw, cheese it, here comes Sergeant Donnely. Hello, Sergeant. Fine evenin', wouldn'tcha say?

... yeah, keep walkin', flatfoot. Where were we? Oh yeah, that mook what roughed up your sister. Say, we should slip him a mickey, then drive him out to the sticks and leave him in a ditch. Walkin' back to town oughta give him time to think real hard about his manners, whaddaya think? Aw, damn, I gotta get another pack of Luckys. Keep yer shirt on, I'll be right back.

[Rivka]

You can pee standing up and not get pregnant, and they can get free drinks at bars and can't be harmed by the other sex.

That was the deal. Men who slap women around and pee sitting down are breaking the deal. :no:

Maybe one of my favorite quotes from this board. :)

Seriously, while I agree in principle that no one should ever hit anyone else -- i.e., try not to resort to physical violence to solve a dispute, except in the defense of ones life or the life of ones loved ones (especially ones children), I think there remains a huge problem of physical and psychological violence directed against women. The ratio of male perpetrators to female victims is hugely lopsided.

Especially against wives and girlfriends. It's not just about physical size, but also psychological programming and societal norms.

On the other hand, it is also up to the women to get the hell out of an abusive relationship, get help, and not get involved with an abusive jackass in the first place, when all the warning signs are there. I cannot believe the young girls today -- high school and college age -- who still will do anything their boyfriends tell them, put up with any abuse, because he threatens to "leave her" if she doesn't.

As to beating up the brother-in-law, he'll only take it out on your sister Donal. It would be infinitely better to talk to her, get her out of that toxic environment, get her the literature so she can read how she's been programmed and how she can escape. If it gets very bad, find a family member's home where she can stay -- if the brother-in-law threatens to harm your entire family, which these assholes often do -- your sister might have to go to a Branches safe-house.

For me the main focus is on educating the young women to (1) not get involved with an abusive jerk in the first place, no matter how "cute" he is or how obsessed he seems with you, (2) know the warning signs of a potentially abusive relationship (and that goes for guys getting involved with Borderlines and other emotionally unstable women), (3) if she already is involved with an asshole then teach her how to successfully extricate herself from the relationship, and (4) if she is in serious danger, teach her how to plan her escape and where she can go to be safe.

[DuckDodgers]

Rivka's right.

If you really want to help her, make sure you go about it the right way. Try and see if you can help him. There's obviously something wrong with him, or his life.

I'm not very patient with this kind of thing, I'd probably be in the 'punch him in the face' camp. But pregnant girls are vulnerable, they need people to help in the proper manner.

[Masculine Todd]

You shouldn't hit anyone in general - male or female.

[Ben]

Is it okay to hit a womanly man?

[KingMob]

Is it okay to hit a womanly man?

God I hope so.

[Masculine Todd]

Maybe one of my favorite quotes from this board. :)

Seriously, while I agree in principle that no one should ever hit anyone else -- i.e., try not to resort to physical violence to solve a dispute, except in the defense of ones life or the life of ones loved ones (especially ones children), I think there remains a huge problem of physical and psychological violence directed against women. The ratio of male perpetrators to female victims is hugely lopsided.

Especially against wives and girlfriends. It's not just about physical size, but also psychological programming and societal norms.

On the other hand, it is also up to the women to get the hell out of an abusive relationship, get help, and not get involved with an abusive jackass in the first place, when all the warning signs are there. I cannot believe the young girls today -- high school and college age -- who still will do anything their boyfriends tell them, put up with any abuse, because he threatens to "leave her" if she doesn't.

As to beating up the brother-in-law, he'll only take it out on your sister Donal. It would be infinitely better to talk to her, get her out of that toxic environment, get her the literature so she can read how she's been programmed and how she can escape. If it gets very bad, find a family member's home where she can stay -- if the brother-in-law threatens to harm your entire family, which these assholes often do -- your sister might have to go to a Branches safe-house.

For me the main focus is on educating the young women to (1) not get involved with an abusive jerk in the first place, no matter how "cute" he is or how obsessed he seems with you, (2) know the warning signs of a potentially abusive relationship (and that goes for guys getting involved with Borderlines and other emotionally unstable women), (3) if she already is involved with an asshole then teach her how to successfully extricate herself from the relationship, and (4) if she is in serious danger, teach her how to plan her escape and where she can go to be safe.

It's well known that a large percentage of men in abusive relationships don't report it due to shame or a sociological perception of masculinity that dictates you don't allow women to beat/inflict harm upon you, and therefor, they go largely unreported, much in the same way Anorexia-Nervosa in men is widely hushed because so many men, through social osmosis, absorb the notion that it's a woman's disease (completely unrelated, but used for context).

[Ryan Elliott]

Is it okay to hit a womanly man?


You shouldn't hit anyone in general - male or female.


*snort*

[Ethan Van Sciver]

I'm getting my goat while a guy roughs up a dame right now.

[Damian696]

And if my pregnant sister-in-law's boyfriend shows his motherfucking face in this house again there's going to be a problem.

I'd like to see him pick on someone MY size.

You don't hit women.

by hitting him you'll just prove to him that things can be solved by violence.

but if I were in your place, i don't know if I could restrain myself.

[gomi]

You shouldn't hit anyone in general - male or female.

I mistakenly read this as "You shouldn't hit anyone in genitalia - male or female."

[Donal DeLay]

I've never subscribed to the "guys DON'T hit women" mantra. I don't think it is ok for anyone to hit another person unless it is self-defense. But for some reason people think that women can knock guys around and that is ok, but the opposite is not? Doesn't fly for me. I don't like women hitting men, either. I think either party should stand up for themselves and fucking LEAVE that kind of situation. Either party willingly staying in an abusive relationship is just contributing to the problem, IMO.

But when a guy is 1' taller and a good 100lbs heavier than a petite girl, there are other ways of stopping her from hitting or slapping him, or whatever.



Sure ya will, mac. Teach that slob a lesson, and I don't mean arithmetic. Give him a haymaker, right in the chops. Imagine, hittin' a swell dame like your sister, and her in a family way, too.

Aw, cheese it, here comes Sergeant Donnely. Hello, Sergeant. Fine evenin', wouldn'tcha say?

... yeah, keep walkin', flatfoot. Where were we? Oh yeah, that mook what roughed up your sister. Say, we should slip him a mickey, then drive him out to the sticks and leave him in a ditch. Walkin' back to town oughta give him time to think real hard about his manners, whaddaya think? Aw, damn, I gotta get another pack of Luckys. Keep yer shirt on, I'll be right back. Is that from a movie, or did you make that up? Cause that's good.


Maybe one of my favorite quotes from this board. :)

Seriously, while I agree in principle that no one should ever hit anyone else -- i.e., try not to resort to physical violence to solve a dispute, except in the defense of ones life or the life of ones loved ones (especially ones children), I think there remains a huge problem of physical and psychological violence directed against women. The ratio of male perpetrators to female victims is hugely lopsided.

Especially against wives and girlfriends. It's not just about physical size, but also psychological programming and societal norms.

On the other hand, it is also up to the women to get the hell out of an abusive relationship, get help, and not get involved with an abusive jackass in the first place, when all the warning signs are there. I cannot believe the young girls today -- high school and college age -- who still will do anything their boyfriends tell them, put up with any abuse, because he threatens to "leave her" if she doesn't.

As to beating up the brother-in-law, he'll only take it out on your sister Donal. It would be infinitely better to talk to her, get her out of that toxic environment, get her the literature so she can read how she's been programmed and how she can escape. If it gets very bad, find a family member's home where she can stay -- if the brother-in-law threatens to harm your entire family, which these assholes often do -- your sister might have to go to a Branches safe-house.

For me the main focus is on educating the young women to (1) not get involved with an abusive jerk in the first place, no matter how "cute" he is or how obsessed he seems with you, (2) know the warning signs of a potentially abusive relationship (and that goes for guys getting involved with Borderlines and other emotionally unstable women), (3) if she already is involved with an asshole then teach her how to successfully extricate herself from the relationship, and (4) if she is in serious danger, teach her how to plan her escape and where she can go to be safe.

He's not my brother-in-law. He's just her boyfriend. And when she came over this morning we took her to the police, despite her older sister (with whom she was temp. staying) trying to convince her NOT to because she didn't want cops at her apartment, etc. My wife yelled at her and said "get the fuck over it. The cops need a statement from you, and he'll be by your apt. later. Deal with it."

She filed a report, is pressing charges, and the cops found his prior record of domestic abuse so things are being taken care of properly. Monday she's going down to CASA and talking to a lawyer about her rights, and the possibility of getting back the money and stuff he stole while she was at her friends house after the incident.


by hitting him you'll just prove to him that things can be solved by violence.

but if I were in your place, i don't know if I could restrain myself.

I won't hit him unless I have to. I have enough training to easilly immobilize him on the ground. Especially since he doesn't.

[Ethan Van Sciver]

You should get a sock full of quarters and beat him with it.

[Donal DeLay]

I mistakenly read this as "You shouldn't hit anyone in genitalia - male or female."
well, you shouldn't. The pelvic bone is easy to break/fracture if hit in the right area.

[Donal DeLay]

You should get a sock full of quarters and beat him with it.

Loan me some quarters.

[dougmac]

when I f first read this I thought you were going to beat down your brother:Oops:

[Ethan Van Sciver]

Loan me some quarters.

It could be a charity, like the Salvation Army. But it'd be the blackjack militia or something. Quarters for women beaters.

[Donal DeLay]

It could be a charity, like the Salvation Army. But it'd be the blackjack militia or something. Quarters for women beaters.

Should I just use my sharpened batarangs instead? What if the sock explodes open and the quarters fly everywhere?

[Garth]

Good points all around, but I still stand by mine. And I love you all, and am glad I can still hit all you males should push come to shove.

[Donal DeLay]

Good points all around, but I still stand by mine. And I love you all, and am glad I can still hit all you males should push come to shove.

You wouldn't hit a man with glasses, would you?

[Garth]

Nah, I don't hit men with glasses, I kick them in the shins.

[RegHorsten]

You wouldn't hit a man with glasses, would you?

Not in the eye region. I might get glass in my hands. The genitalia region on the other hand is up for grabs literally.

[Garth]

What if I am just really passive aggressive with dames, is that ok?

[RegHorsten]

What if I am just really passive aggressive with dames, is that ok?

What like gesturing to light their cigarette but than procrastinating lighting the match?

[Garth]

What like gesturing to light their cigarette but than procrastinating lighting the match?

Exactly. Or slightly sarcastic remarks about the way dinner was prepared.

[RegHorsten]

Exactly. Or slightly sarcastic remarks about the way dinner was prepared.

Getting upset because the radish rose is soaking in the cream spinach?

[Garth]

Getting upset because the radish rose is soaking in the cream spinach?

"Wow, seems like you really spent some time on this"
"I did...wait why did you say it like that?"

[Donal DeLay]

Nah, I don't hit men with glasses, I kick them in the shins.


Not in the eye region. I might get glass in my hands. The genitalia region on the other hand is up for grabs literally.

*buys a cup*

[Donal DeLay]

Update: He was arrested this morning at 10am on a felony charge of aggravated battery.

:D

[Ryan Elliott]

Update: He was arrested this morning at 10am on a felony charge of aggravated battery.

:D


Bwahaha! Throw the book at him!

[Garth]

*buys a cup*

But no shin guards? What're you trying to say?!

[Donal DeLay]

But no shin guards? What're you trying to say?!

My wife doesn't play with my shins. ;)

[ZombieSpeedball]

Bwahaha! Throw the book at him!

And then poison the book and feed it to him!

[Craig C]

If he does show his face around I say act out the baseball bat scene from the untouchables

[sloth_love_chunk]

The problem with physical abuse isn't even the physical part of it. That's terrible certainly, but what is the worst part is how the abused woman is damaged psychologically. And the longer they stay with these dicks the more broken they become. And having said that I don't think a beating could be harsh enough for this guy.

[nick maynard]

i'm with you.

[Garth]

My wife doesn't play with my shins. ;)

prude.

[c. page]

hit him like a brick. a brick full of bullets.

[ShortStack]

I can't speak to my best friends father because I know he beats her for dressing like a man. She is the most talented, awesome, amazing girl I know. If they can't see that and love her just because she's gay then they need to get the fuck out.