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12-17-2008, 02:57 AM
damn, this is fucked up.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/asia-pacific/7786985.stm

http://assets.nydailynews.com/img/2008/11/28/amd_oksori.jpg


One of South Korea's best-known actresses, Ok So-ri, has been given a suspended prison sentence of eight months for adultery.

She admitted the offence and the court suspended the sentence for two years.

The trial took place after Ms Ok failed to get the constitutional court to overturn the strict law that makes adultery a criminal offence.

In her petition she said the law was an infringement of human rights and amounted to revenge.

According to the BBC correspondent in Seoul, John Sudworth, the scandal has kept South Korea's tabloid newspapers and internet chatrooms buzzing for months.

'Damaging to social order'

South Korea is one of the few remaining non-Muslim countries where adultery remains a criminal offence.


THE ANTI-ADULTERY LAW
Enacted in 1953; initially applied only to married women
Constitutional Court upheld the law in 1990, 1993, 2001 and 2008
But the judges' support for the law has gradually declined. The law's repeal would require backing of six of the court's nine judges - in the last case, five judges backed its repeal
Hundreds of people are charged under the law every year, but only a few dozen are jailed
Supporters of the law claim adultery undermines the social order, and say the law protects women's rights in marriage
Its opponents claim the law is often abused as a means of revenge or securing greater financial divorce settlements; and say in reality those who suffer under the law are most often women
A person found guilty of adultery can be jailed for up to two years.

More than 1,000 people are charged each year, although, as in this case, very few are actually sent to jail.

The law has been challenged four times, but the country's top judges have always ruled that adultery is damaging to social order, and the offence should therefore remain a crime.

In this case, Ms Ok was sued by her former husband, Park Chul.

She admitted having an affair with a well-known pop singer, and blamed it on a loveless marriage to Mr Park.

The 40-year-old actress sought to have the adultery ban ruled an inconstitutional invasion of privacy, and in a petition to the Constitutional Court, her lawyers claimed the law had "degenerated into a means of revenge by the spouse, rather than a means of saving a marriage".

But the adultery ban was upheld, and judges in Seoul have now given her an eight-month suspended sentence, and her lover a six-month suspended term.

"I would like to say I'm sorry for stirring up such a controversy," Ms Ok said after the court judgement.

According to a survey carried out last year, nearly 68% of South Korean men and 12% of women confess to having sex outside marriage.



If this happened where I live, half the country would be behind bars.

changingshades
12-17-2008, 04:05 AM
screw you, I'm gonna bone all the married women I want.

Men too

Ryan Walsh
12-17-2008, 05:59 AM
screw you, I'm gonna bone all the married women I want.

Men too

I thought the whole point of going to Korea was to CHANGE your life, jon.



OH, wait, you left dogs off the list. Didn't notice that.

Ryudo
12-17-2008, 06:01 AM
I know this is horrible, but her name is "Ok, sorry."

And that makes me laugh a bit.

Ryan Walsh
12-17-2008, 06:04 AM
I know this is horrible, but her name is "Ok, sorry."

And that makes me laugh a bit.

Crap, how did I miss that?!

Kudos, my friend!

Ashton
12-17-2008, 06:04 AM
Also in Korea a couple cannot get a divorce unless both parties agree. there are some exceptions such as cheating or abuse then the offended spouse can sue for a divorce and win if the other still doesn't want to end the marriage.

Dr. Hackenbush
12-17-2008, 06:07 AM
Do the laws still apply if you get freaky in the DMZ?

The Dean
12-17-2008, 06:08 AM
Having been cheated on, I can't say that I'm opposed to this...

Shepherd
12-17-2008, 06:28 AM
If I sleep with anyone except my wife, it's illegal for me anyway :) "Be careful who you sleep with" for me just means to check to make sure she's my wife first.

But really, I still don't get this. Most Koreans are against this law. What makes this even more odd is that married men sleeping with prostitutes is completely commonplace here. I've never heard of a man getting prosecuted for this law. Very very sexist.


R

Shepherd
12-17-2008, 06:34 AM
Do the laws still apply if you get freaky in the DMZ?

No, it's just a general free-for-all up there.

R

Shepherd
12-17-2008, 06:36 AM
I know this is horrible, but her name is "Ok, sorry."

And that makes me laugh a bit.

Ha, I never noticed that. That's the first time I've seen it written in English, and the pronunciation is nothing like that (the pronunciation is actually "Oak Soh-Lee." Koreans just write their names in English in fucked up ways).

R

Ryudo
12-17-2008, 06:40 AM
If I sleep with anyone except my wife, it's illegal for me anyway :) "Be careful who you sleep with" for me just means to check to make sure she's my wife first.


What, you throw a finger down there and root around for a bit first? :lol:

changingshades
12-17-2008, 01:40 PM
I thought the whole point of going to Korea was to CHANGE your life, jon.



OH, wait, you left dogs off the list. Didn't notice that.

yes, here we eat dogs, we don't fuck 'em

Gunter
12-17-2008, 01:42 PM
No, it's just a general free-for-all up there.

R

Oh yeah it is.

Good times...good times...

;-)

/(. . )/
12-17-2008, 11:05 PM
If I sleep with anyone except my wife, it's illegal for me anyway :) "Be careful who you sleep with" for me just means to check to make sure she's my wife first.

But really, I still don't get this. Most Koreans are against this law. What makes this even more odd is that married men sleeping with prostitutes is completely commonplace here. I've never heard of a man getting prosecuted for this law. Very very sexist.


R

I read the article in the Japanese news. Her "crime" was translated to this word:
姦通罪 "crime of adultery"
if you look closely at the first kanji, it is composed of 3 characters of "woman" 女
the term for adultery itself is sexist. it can only be used for women who cheat. It does not refer to men.